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Upper School

Soulful Strides Success

March 7, 2025

The Upper School came together last Friday for Soulful Strides—a vibrant, student-led Black History Month celebration hosted by CA’s Nubian Kings, Nubian Queens and the African American Affinity Group (AAAG). Months in the making, the celebratory event was a testament to student leadership and collaboration. 

The program featured a dynamic Afrobeat performance and interactive dance session with NC Dugout, an inspiring lineup of guest speakers from Duke’s National Pan-Hellenic Council and Miss Saint Augustine’s University, and a delicious catered lunch from Black-owned local restaurant SistasLove Events. Students were also able to explore a thought-provoking presentation series on influential African American inventors and changemakers—curated by AAAG, the Nubian Queens, and the Nubian Kings. 

Thanks to the vision and dedication of student organizers, faculty support, and PTAA grant funding, Soulful Strides was more than an immersive cultural celebration that honored history and sparked meaningful conversations across the CA community. 

Written by Mandy Dailey, Director of Communications

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Strong Showing from US SciOly

February 17, 2025


On Saturday, February 8, the Upper School JV and Varsity SciOly teams competed in the Wolfpack Regional at NCSU. Varsity took 7th place overall and an undermanned JV team secured 8th. These feats are all the more impressive due to the fact the teams couldn’t compete in all the events, and several students were without a partner. Special shout out to Riya Bhatnagar, ‘27, for triple medaling in her events and bringing home two bronze and a silver medal. Click here for a full list of medaling scientists! 

Individual Event Medals: 

Varsity:  
Alister Devins ’26 and Riya Bhatnagar ’27 – 2nd place in Air Trajectory 
Riya Bhatnagar, Anna Benjamin ’27, and Aviva Wang ’26 – 3rd place in Codebusters 
Riya Bhatnagar and Michael Wei ’28 – 3rd place in Varsity Forensics 
Wells Lin ’27 and Ryan Chen ’26 – 5th place in Disease Detectives 
Ryan Chen and Anna Benjamin – 5th place in Dynamic Planet 
Xuanjin Zhu ’27 and Joyce Xu ’26 – 6th place in Chem Lab 
Sophia Wu ’28 and Tara Viswanath ’28 – 6th place in Fossils 
Aviva Wang and Michael Wei – 6th place in Material Science 

JV: 
Sophie Dollinger ’28 – 4th place in JV Fossils 

Aiden Tong ’28 and William Pellegrino ’28 – 5th place in Wind Power 
Victor He ’27 – 5th place in Dynamic Planet 

Written by Mandy Dailey, Director of Communications

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Profiles in Purpose

November 11, 2024

Charlotte Dadd, ‘24

Landscape Architecture
Virginia Tech

“CA allowed me to customize my curriculum to explore my interests and follow where they led. As a result, I discovered my passion for combining design and environment stewardship.”


Charlotte’s path to purpose started in MaLi Burnett’s biology class, where she worked as a teaching assistant during her sophomore year. The role would evolve into co-designing and leading an “Ecology at CA” Discovery Term, during which Dadd learned about native and invasive species and environmental design principles through field trips to botanical gardens and parks. She applied her newfound knowledge by collaborating with peers to design and construct a wildlife pond behind the Center for Math and Science, now used as a real-world interactive lab for studying aquatic ecosystems.

The experience piqued her interest in environmental design, which she pursued by creating an independent study to document the biodiversity of CA’s campus. Over two years, Charlotte cataloged over 180 plant species, creating an interactive map using ArcGIS. An additional elective, Advanced Environmental Science class with Upper School science teacher Heidi Maloy, further solidified her interest through an intensive companion planting project, which offered valuable lessons in ecological balance.

This fall, Charlotte heads to Virginia Tech, where she plans to major in landscape architecture and minor in urban planning or civil engineering. She hopes to work for a large landscape architecture firm and lead projects that create public spaces that foster community and environmental sustainability and appreciation.

Danny Davalos-Martinez, ‘24

Agricultural Business Management
North Carolina State University

“I charted my own path through CA, and thanks to those experiences, I found my purpose—what makes me happy and excited for my future.” 

Danny tailored his educational journey at CA to explore his passion for agriculture, finding and creating unique opportunities aligned with his interests and goals. In his “Farming Our Food” science elective, he immersed himself in hands-on activities like designing garden beds and cultivating vegetables on campus, connecting classroom learning with practical application.

His educational journey extended beyond the campus through transformative expeditionary experiences. As a member of a contingent of students who attended Youth Forum Switzerland, Danny delved into sustainable agriculture alongside global peers—an experience that aligned with his interests and broadened his perspective on global sustainability issues.

During his Work Experience program, Danny collaborated with a local farm, gaining valuable first-hand insights into large-scale farming operations. The experience confirmed his interest in the business and economics side of agriculture.  

In the fall, Danny will start at North Carolina State University, where he plans to study Agricultural Business Management, an experience for which he is excited and uniquely prepared.

Renee Zhu, ’24

Visual Arts
RISD (Rhode Island School of Design)

“At CA, I had the freedom to revolve my entire life around art; opportunities were all around me…as I developed my artistic voice, I realized I could build a career in my art.” 

Renee’s experience at CA was shaped by a deep passion for art and literature from her early years. Initially drawn to the humanities, her love of the visual arts bloomed in CA’s Middle School art studios. There, she delighted in experimenting and learning the basics of various mediums under the encouraging guidance of her teachers.

In Upper School, Renee took full advantage of CA’s flexible curriculum, filling her schedule with an array of visual arts electives—from drawing and painting to digital imaging and 3-D design. She immersed herself in X Days and extracurricular activities and projects—from co-editing iNKBLOT (CA’s student-led art and culture magazine) to spearheading the creation of a full-scale mural in the Center for Community Engagement classroom. These experiences provided lucrative avenues to explore her artistic voice beyond the traditional classroom setting. Inspiration often came thanks to interdisciplinarity, with content from her favorite English electives—studies in poetry and magical realism, for example—providing endless themes to explore.

As Renee’s artistic voice solidified, so did her confidence—both in the studio and classroom. She increasingly contributed her perspectives—often informed by her artistic explorations—in class discussions. With the thoughtful mentorship of Upper School art teacher Cayce Lee, she built a professional portfolio of 20 completed works for her Advanced Portfolio class and, in so doing, found validation in her decision to pursue art as her life’s work.

This fall, Renee joins the prestigious Rhode Island School of Design, where she eagerly anticipates the exploration, discoveries, and artistic growth that lie ahead. 

Nayan Patel, ’25 

Machine Learning

“The depth to which CA has allowed me to pursue my interests has solidified what is sure to be a lifelong fascination with STEM, particularly machine learning and artificial intelligence.” 

Nayan Patel—who completed Calculus 3 in his junior year, an advanced college-level class held in collaboration with North Carolina State University—is quick to laud CA academics. As an avid member of CA’s USAYPT, rocketry, and robotics teams, he’s also developed an appreciation of CA’s extracurricular, experiential, and flexible learning opportunities that have allowed him to explore and apply his learning in meaningful ways in the real world.

During his “Reach for the Stars” Discovery Term, Nayan traveled to a “dark sky” area to view space through the largest telescope in North Carolina. Back on campus, he had the opportunity to explore further, even building a telescope enclosure. The experience confirmed a deep interest in space, physics, and astronomy.

With the freedom to explore in his tenth-grade Topics in Computer class, Nayan developed his first baseline computer vision application—and a passion for machine learning. Hooked, he secured a summer internship with Duke University Electrical Engineering Professor Dr. Tingjun Chen, where he used machine learning to help generate cell service coverage maps of cities based on satellite images.

On learning of human rights abuses and environmental concerns involved with mining cobalt—one of the minerals used to create lithium-ion batteries—during a volunteer engagement working with Congolese refugees, Nayan was inspired to find a solution. Last year, as a junior, he developed an independent research project to investigate whether asteroid mining might offer a more sustainable and equitable alternative.

He developed a machine learning application that can process large astronomic spectrometry data sets to determine if asteroids contain mineral compositions that could be mined as suitable alternatives to highly sought minerals on Earth. His work experience program placement last spring with Wasatch Photonics, a manufacturer of mini spectrometers, offered unique insights into the inner workings of the technology on which his research depends.

As he enters his senior year, Nayan is interested in exploring other ways that artificial intelligence and machine learning can be leveraged to help address some of the most pressing humanitarian and environmental issues of our time. 

Tanya Sachdev, ’24 

Global Health
Duke University 

“When I think of Cary Academy, the word that comes to mind is ‘opportunity.’ CA truly invests in its students…. As a result, I discovered my passion and a future in global health.”

During her time at CA, Tanya emerged as a community leader and dedicated social activist who channeled her outrage over the global refugee crises into action—and a purpose-driven career path. 

Inspired by an NPR story her sophomore year, Tanya approached the Center for Community Engagement to found the CA chapter of the national STAR (Students Together Assisting Refugees) Club. As founder and president, she was given the freedom to spearhead initiatives on campus to raise awareness and partner with local organizations to directly aid refugees. 

Experiential opportunities offered welcome opportunities to delve deeper into the refugee crisis and its attendant issues. During X Days, she designed sessions to educate her peers on the cause, inviting guest speakers and organizing outings to refugee support organizations and refugee-owned businesses. Social-emotional and equity learning opportunities equipped her with skills to navigate interactions with the refugee populations she aims to serve in respectful and authentic ways.

To strengthen her leadership skills, Tanya applied and was selected for participation in the CCE’s Leadership Academy, an eight-month, intensive program designed to prepare students for leadership roles on and off campus. The experience ultimately helped to equip her with skills to found and lead her own nonprofit—Empowering Refugee Children (ERC) —committed to expanding educational opportunities and providing scholarships for refugee children.

Beyond co-curricular opportunities, Tanya credits the flexibility to tailor her academics to her interests and to maximize interdisciplinarity—taking advanced chemistry alongside advanced government, for example—with confirming that her passion and purpose lay at the intersection of the sciences and humanities. 

This fall, Tanya begins at Duke University, where she plans to major in global health on the pre-med track. She hopes to eventually work as a doctor focused on serving the refugee community.

Zachary Bigelow, ’24 

Liberal Arts
Michigan State University

“At CA, you can find the way of thinking about the world that best fits you; you can connect anything that you enjoy to a subject that you’re learning.”

Purpose doesn’t always have to be concrete, and the path toward it can be a winding one. For Zachary Bigelow, his journey to purpose wound through an exploration of a variety of academic interests, discerning the important connections between them and applying those insights to how he thinks about the world.

In his English classes, he was given carte blanche to identify and explore personally resonant themes in class texts. Thoughtful alignment of his math and science classes—and an interdisciplinary Discovery Term—shed light on how they worked in concert in the real world around him, each, in turn, inspiring a deeper interest in the other. His German exchange trip exposed him to a whole new vocabulary—words that don’t exist in English—with which to better describe his world. In each experience, his ability to personalize and own his learning—in both content and pedagogical approaches—empowered him to follow even the smallest curiosity to impressive ends.

Oddly enough, and perhaps because he was used to being encouraged to dive deeper into other subjects, Zachary’s now keen interest in history can be traced back to the only class at CA he didn’t fully enjoy—Advanced American History. The pace and breadth of the class, which covered the entirety of American history, was off-putting. However, while studying the 1844 election, a seemingly minor detail—one so insignificant it would be omitted from later textbooks—offered a different entrée into the content he was studying, invigorating an interest in history and the power of small moments to alter its trajectory.

Inspired by a simple two-sentence mention about third-party candidate James G. Birney, Zachary proposed an independent study in his senior year. This deep dive into American history demonstrated that Birney’s paltry 10,000 votes marked a turning point that put America on the path to the Civil War. His project went on to win top prize in the National History Day Regional Competition.

In the fall, Zachary will attend Michigan State University as an Alumni Distinguished Scholar. There, he will pursue his varied interests in the Honors College Program, which allows him to take any undergraduate course without prerequisites. While some might be daunted by the opportunity to take advanced college courses, Zachary credits CA with instilling in him the self-awareness to understand his interests, strengths, and limitations, enabling him to tackle the challenge with confidence and enthusiasm.

Annie Boyse, ’25  

World Languages

“CA gives students remarkable freedom and trust to pursue their interests.”

For Annie Boyse, purpose comes from the new experiences and perspectives brought through cultural exploration and the ability to communicate fluently in languages other than her native tongue. 

Annie’s adventure with world languages began in her Middle School Spanish classroom, where an immersive approach focused not on rote memorization of random vocabulary words, but on building the fundamentals of the grammar needed to begin speaking. To Annie, it was like being offered keys to a different world; she was immediately hooked.

Wanting to go deeper, at the end of her freshman year, Annie approached her Upper School Spanish teacher, Vic Quesada-Herrera, to express an interest in fast-tracking her fluency. Thanks to CA’s approach, which stresses aptitude and interest over a prescribed one-size-fits-all path, Annie was able to secure approval from the department chair to study over the summer and test into Advanced Spanish on her return in the fall. 

Now, in advanced-level Spanish classes, she’s tackling subjects in her target language—like Costa Rican history and culture—that both interest her and give her real-world conversational experience beyond what would be feasible in a traditional classroom. She credits the experience of hosting her Argentinian World Language Exchange Program partner with helping her develop a deeper understanding of Argentinian culture, politics, and society that allows her to communicate more authentically with native speakers.

Beyond the classroom, Annie has embraced opportunities to apply her language skills in real-world settings and to connect with native Spanish speakers. Her pivotal experience at the Mexican Consulate in Raleigh exemplifies her dedication. Volunteering weekly, Annie supports children of Mexican immigrants, helping them navigate activities in Spanish while their parents manage consulate affairs. This role not only sharpens her language proficiency, but also underscores her commitment to community service and cultural advocacy.

Next year, Annie will embark on an independent study to learn Italian—a world language outside of CA’s established curriculum. Having already achieved near proficiency in Spanish, she hopes Italian will unlock more of the globe for authentic cultural exploration that can yield meaningful experiences and connections.




Written by Mandy Dailey, Director of Communications

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Dream Team

September 10, 2024

CA’s college counselors are in the business of dreams—helping students pursue theirs by guiding them on a process of self-discovery that, hopefully, ends with the best college fit.

Ask any of our four college counselors—Brandon Carter, Becca Haque, Leya Jones, and David Sakyi—and they will tell you the same thing: that they have the best jobs at Cary Academy.

“The fact that I get to be a part of a student’s journey in developing into their best selves is a pure blessing,” offers Carter. “I look forward to work every day—that’s not an exaggeration—because I get to work with some of the brightest, funniest, most caring, respectful, and appreciative students in the world.”

Strike up a conversation with nearly any of our alums, and it will reveal equal admiration from the other side of the equation. Interviews offer warm recollections replete with gratitude for the pivotal role that the college counselors played in their college selection journey.

Said one alum in a recent biannual alumni engagement survey: “I would send my kids to CA for the incredible college counselors and the amount of guidance they provided me during the college process. It truly is unparalleled in comparison to what other students at other high schools receive.”

Other alums point to the counselors’ deeper impact—not just on their college processes, but on their broader lives—crediting the counselors for believing in them when they didn’t quite believe in themselves, for nudging them towards a better version of themselves, and for helping them to discover who they wanted to be in the world.

The depth of the relationships these anecdotes reflect isn’t all that surprising. At Cary Academy, the college counseling process is a true partnership between student and counselor. Working closely as a team, they explore interests and talents, consider current strengths, and identify future ambitions and goals—all in hopes of discovering that post-high school holy grail: the strongest collegiate fit.

“Research shows that the number one reason why a student chooses to remain at their respective college is a sense of belonging,” explains Carter. “If they feel they fit well within the academic and social fabric of that institution, the student is more likely to stay, thrive, and graduate.”

“The CA college counseling team has always approached their work with a high level of integrity. The degree of trust that students, CA families, and the CA community put into our office has made me feel comfortable and confident in contributing to a great team while maintaining my professional values,” comments Sakyi.

“As counselors, we’re lucky—luckier than most—in that our philosophy as an office is fully supported by CA’s leadership,” adds Jones. “We have colleagues at many other places who are driven by pressure to have a certain number of students admitted to/attending certain colleges. We don’t have that.”

On the contrary, as with all things CA, our college counseling process is mission-driven, grounded in a commitment to learning that is personal, flexible, and relevant, and driven by our community values of compassion, respect, and integrity. As in the classroom, students are in the driver’s seat—encouraged to “own their learning and process”—with the counselors offering sage counsel to steer them in the right direction.

“We are focused on building relationships with our students that go well beyond the transaction of just submitting an application. Our process lends itself to introspection, often becoming a transformative learning experience for the student. I love getting them to stretch a bit—to consider a school with which they might not have been familiar,” shares Haque.

A point of pride for the team, a review of CA’s college matriculations reveals a lengthy and diverse list of educational institutions. Over the last three years, CA students have gone to nearly 100 different colleges and universities in the United States and abroad, where they thrive, grow, pursue their dreams, and, hopefully, move one step closer to becoming the people they want to be.

“My goal is to find the institution that fits you best so that they can thrive on the next level and beyond, whatever that means to you.” 
– Brandon Carter, College Counseling Co-Director

Written by Mandy Dailey, Director of Communications

Middle School

Spotlight On: Advisory Program

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Spotlight On: Advisory Program

July 15, 2024

At CA, we want everyone to feel valued for their authentic selves, that they belong, and that they have a trusted adult cheering in their corner—someone with a bird’s eye view of all their needs, challenges, goals, and future aspirations. That’s where our advisory program comes in.

Comprised of a faculty member and a small group of peers, advisory includes social-emotional learning opportunities, grade-specific discussion topics, and even the occasional chillax session. In addition to supporting students, advisors also work closely with parents, communicating feedback and offering personal and academic guidance.

In Middle School, advisory is where students might explore what it means to be a good community member and friend, or learn to navigate complex social situations and how advocate for themselves. It’s an important part of the social fabric of the Middle School, with students meeting regularly to socialize and participate in team-building activities designed to help them find their place within our community.

In Upper School, students are with the same advisor and advisory peer group for their entire four years. Tight and trusted bonds form in these groups. Here is where students might learn to work across differences, lean into challenging conversations, find and use their voices, and plan for what comes next.

Advisors are there with students every step of the way, offering individual, personal, and academic guidance and shepherding students through self-reflection and goal setting.

Sound serious? Don’t worry—fun is built in, too, with lots of opportunities for camaraderie with fellow advisees.

Written by Mandy Dailey, Director of Communications

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Science Olympiad starts the season off right.

February 8, 2024

Earlier this month, the Middle School and Upper School Science Olympiad Teams competed in their first tournament of the season, the NCSO Raleigh Regional Tournament. Overall, The MS varsity team earned an 8th-place trophy! The Upper School varsity team placed 6th overall- earning a bid to the state tournament in April at NCSU. Cary Academy also won the first-ever Division C Conen Morgan Spirit Award. Nominations noted our students’ friendliness, politeness, thankfulness, and willingness to help other teams by lending materials and giving advice. See below for a complete list of finishes:

Middle School Results
JV:
4th in Disease Detectives – Sophie Mei (’30) & Zofia Wang(‘30)
Varsity:
6th Anatomy & Physiology – Celia Chen (’29) & Sophie Liu (‘29)
3rd Disease Detectives – Xinya Pan (’29) & Samantha Kordus (‘28)
7th Ecology – Aarnavi Boppana (’29) & Jaden Hong (‘28)
5th Forestry – Amy Zheng (’29) & Annika Liu (‘29)
6th Microbe Mission – Samantha Kordus (’28) & Mia Rochman (’28)
4th Reach for the Stars – Aarnavi Boppana (’29) & Mia Rochman (‘28) 

Upper School Results
JV: 
4th in Scrambler – Annalise Davies (‘25) & Isabel Chang (‘24)
5th in Forensics – Wells Lin (‘26) & Katie Shen (‘24)
Varsity:
2nd Air Trajectory – Alister Davis (‘26) & Ryan Chen (‘26)
2nd Forensics – Riya Bhatnagar (‘27) & Bella Huang (‘24)
5th Experimental Design – Alister Davis (‘26), Joyce Xu (‘26), & Jasmine Ye (‘24)
5th Fossils – Ian Chen (‘24) & Jasmine Ye (‘24) 
6th Forestry – Ian Chen (‘24) & Jasmine Ye (‘24)
6th Geo Mapping – Ian Chen (‘24) & Angelika Wang (‘24)
7th Astronomy – Audrey Song (‘26) & Joyce Xu (‘26)
7th Scrambler – Alister Davis (‘26) & Sebastian de Souza (‘25)

Written by Jack Swingle

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Time Well Spent

October 19, 2023

It is perhaps a (deceptively) simple question: How is your relationship with time?

I mulled over this question after reading a chapter called “Generosity with Time” in Chris Balme’s Finding the Magic in Middle Schools. As someone who teaches in middle school but lives with teenagers of various ages—especially older ones—I found it resonant, offering essential lessons that extend to kids and parents alike.

Many of us feel anxious about time. We never lose track of it. Ever. We might stand in awe (or horror) of those who breezily do. After all, we have color-coded calendars with a paper planner backup to prevent that exact occurrence. We might just be the ones who breathe a guilty sigh of relief if a surprise thunderstorm cancels a soccer practice; time is scarce, and we are not in control of it.

Then there are those people at the other end of the spectrum. Let’s call them the time-abundant mindset folks. Whoever you are, please stand over there; you’re messing up our schedules. 

All joking aside, the world often suggests to us that we should have a scarcity mindset regarding time. Whether real or not, we perceive that we don’t have enough time for All The Things.

It affects our behavior—how we talk about time hints of pressure and victimization. (“Can you hurry up and get in the car? You don’t want to be late to school and make me late to work, do you?!?,” said me, not ever. Never. *ahem*)

Indeed, I would wager that we make some of our poorer decisions as parents because of our own anxious relationship with time (and the tween and teen years are often when even the breeziest of parents shift into a higher-pressure, time-anxious mentality). The behavior that follows is often very controlling, albeit exerted in love.

Have you ever heard yourself say, “We don’t have time to wait for you to pack your gym bag; I’ll just do it for you.”  Ooops, we’ve just accidentally undermined our kid. And so begins (or continues) a generational curse of time scarcity.

Research shows that for middle and high school students to be academically resilient and prepared for all the things college and life offer, they must develop a healthy relationship with time. To get there, we need to trust our kids by granting them the space (and grace) to exercise more autonomy—to practice being in charge of their ‘when’ and ‘whats,’ to learn what time management strategies work (or don’t) for them, to fail, experience boredom, or miss something (and regret it).

Consider a new 9th grader experiencing a cherished free period for the first time. The freedom! The possibilities! THE FRAPS AT THE HUB!!! As a parent, you might be tempted to offer suggestions on how they could best spend that time (because: Homework! Practice schedules! Weekend plans!).

Here’s my advice, however: pay attention, but let these kids figure it out without us putting our anxiety onto them. 

High schoolers need to go through a period of failure with their free periods and sit in the uncomfortable repercussions of not having used their time wisely at least once. In experiencing that natural feedback and the consequences that come with it, the motivation to better manage their time becomes intrinsic. It’s how they learn to balance, pace, and spend their time to meet their academic and health needs.

During free periods, we often see our students on the Quad throwing a ball, sitting together in the winter sun, or chilling to music. We hear their witty banter during video games. Is that time misspent? Could be. (But perhaps not; research shows that mixing social connections with learning brings more focus into their actual class time. But that’s a blog for another day.)

Alternately, we may hear the clickity-clack of the speed typing of those students who may be feeling the effects of their procrastination. Or witness the ‘competitive sleep deprivation’ banter typical of many students—students who simply repeat what feels like a generational expectation, scholars who view sleep deprivation as some sort of signal of dedication.

These stories offer insights into the two opposite ends of a spectrum and underscore the importance of finding a middle ground regarding our relationship with time—one that honors both academic and social/emotional needs. After all, we want our kids to navigate life at CA and beyond with an understanding of how they can meet their academic obligations in healthy ways by effectively managing their time.

Knowing what we know about how WE have been socialized, it’s wise for us parents to be aware of how we talk about time with our children and to address our own time-related baggage. To jump-start that process, I spoke with Ms. Monds, our Director of Student Support Services and Counselor extraordinaire, and we curated this short list of suggested questions to gauge your own relationship status:

  1. Do I think that my child’s idle time will lead to problems? If so, what message is that sending to my child?
  2. Am I giving my child enough credit for managing their own schedule?
  3. Can I sit down in my own home? (If you know why I ask this, you know why I ask this.)
  4. Have I spoken about time without being a victim of it in the last few days?
  5. What do I feel when I have “idle time”?
    • Do I criticize/judge others for being idle?
    • Do I judge myself for being idle?
    • Do I create an environment for other to feel like they can relax?
  6. When was the last time I, myself, had free time that I didn’t fill with errands?

Ask even one of these questions, and we promise it will be time well spent.

Written by Josette Huntress, Head of Middle School

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A Taste of the Arts

October 5, 2023

You’ve seen the emails. Maybe you’ve purchased tickets for a show. Perhaps you’ve visited the silent auction and checked out the raffle item. But what is A Taste of the Arts?

Our fall community-building events have one primary goal: to foster a sense of connection amongst our families, students, employees, and community partners. That might be created through a reception, or a community game night, or perhaps, as it is this year, through an arts showcase (or should I say extravaganza?).

When we first began brainstorming a dinner theater, our eyes immediately became bigger than our stomachs (pun intended!). We quickly realized we couldn’t stop with a stage performance. There were too many other artistic talents in our midst! What about our pianists? Our string students, dancers, visual artists, and our behind-the-scenes arts technicians?

More than a mere taste, we quickly found ourselves looking at a Thanksgiving Feast of the Arts—an endeavor both exhilarating and daunting.

However, thanks to the remarkable creative vision of Glen Matthews and his team, we found ways to bring this vision to life. Weaving together the incredible talents of our students, the generosity of our parents and our alumni, and the extraordinary effort of employees, the Taste of the Arts is a 4-night showstopping showcase. More than that, however, it is a testament to our amazing community—to our many talents, the strength of our connection to each other, and to CA’s mission.

Imagine it. Walking up, you are greeted with a giant Charger puppet. Yes, you read that correctly: a puppet. Too tall to bring inside, it dances across the Quad welcoming you, up the red carpet, to a magical evening.

When you enter Berger Hall, your eyes need time to adjust. Do you direct your attention to the walls adorned with original pieces of work created by our students? Or to the baskets up for auction, created with time and love by groups of parents from each grade? Perhaps, instead, you check in, chatting with friends, as music floats around you (possibly even played by a group of talented young people).

While you wait for your party to arrive, you peruse the auction table and look over the details of our featured raffle. A $20,000 trip to France? Your mind whirls at the possibilities. Yes, please!

As you picture yourself in Paris, maybe you wander towards the balcony. What’s that? Scarf dancers? Yes! It is. Performing before dinner on Friday and Saturday, these performers stretch your imagination as they glide through the space below.

Bringing you back to reality, a student donned in a Taste of the Arts t-shirt—perhaps one of our many performers or theater technicians (be sure to ask!)—shares news that the doors have opened. It is time for dinner.

You make your way down the steps of the theater to your seat. But wait! You aren’t sitting in the audience, are you? No. You go up to the stage where tables are set up all around…another stage? Yes. Another one! Built on top of this one.

Settling into your seat, you take in the view, noticing the flowers (ahem…handmade by our students). You greet your tablemates. Perhaps you’re next to a parent who helped with costumes. You might have

an alum, who has returned to campus after missing out on art performances during the pandemic. Or maybe you brought a full table of guests to support someone, on stage or behind the scenes.

Returning from the buffet, you notice your placemat, featuring the names and logos of so many businesses who have helped make this performance possible. (Don’t worry—it’s okay if you spill on your friends’ business logo! We have new placemats for each night.)

After dinner and dessert, as our talented pianists play, you find yourself relaxing. The lights dim and figures appear on the stage. As the lights come up, you pause. The faces you see – why, it’s the same faces of those who helped you to your seat and bussed your table! How did they get up there so fast? As soon as they start to sing, you are immediately lost in the show.

At the end of the night, you’ll go home full—not just from the delicious food, but from the creativity and talents of this community. You’ll overflow with appreciation, not only for the magic of the final event, but for the months of creativity, collaboration, and innovation that took to bring it to fruition—for a truly mission-driven, beautiful taste of all the arts here at Cary Academy.

So, I must express my deep appreciation to everyone in this community who gave of themselves and pulled together to make this magical event happen.

(Bummed you missed out on an incredible evening? You still have a chance! Limited first-come, first-served tickets are still available for our Friday performance.)

Written by Ali Page, Director of Development

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Game On!

August 17, 2023

Welcome, everybody, to the 2023-2024 school year.

Don’t get me wrong; I love summer. I love the change of pace in the offices at Cary Academy, and the opportunity for time to both disconnect and reflect, away from the bang-bang pace of the school year. And, while I wish my physiology let me sleep in, I do enjoy the extra cup of coffee and “slower start” to a summer day.

So, while I think summer is great—and I hope that all of you found time for rest and reflection, too—I am thrilled to start the school year and welcome to campus our 789 Chargers.

Yesterday definitely brought the energy. It was great to see so many people reconnecting, swapping stories, and welcoming our 130 new students into the fold. For the past several weeks, our employees have been working together to prepare for this year – and there is always a markedly positive uplift when we welcome the students back to campus. Practice is over. Game on!

Collectively, we are focused this year on strengthening our sense of community as part of the Charger Family. Last year, we were overjoyed to see the tremendous turnout at our joint CA/PTAA community events—parents and students alike. We felt how nice it was to be “getting back to normal” and joining face-to-face in fellowship.

At the same time, we recognize that much has changed – including “normal.” This year we will continue to re-establish what it means to “do school”—as an employee, as a parent, and as a student. During yesterday’s Upper School Convocation, I was pleased to hear these same themes echoed by this year’s student leaders – a sign, if you will, that we are all rowing in the same direction in the desire to make the charger community a source of pride and positive energy.

I look forward to seeing many of you during the first PTAA Coffee of the school year at 9am on Thursday, September 7, on the second floor of the Library (A203). At that time, I will share a bit more about what we are working on this year and how these plans fit into the larger strategic goals of the school.

In the meantime, I would like to take this opportunity to introduce you to two important new members of the Cary Academy team – our Campus Safety Director, Cedric Herring, and Campus Safety Officer, Malika Lucas. Both joined us in the early summer and will be a visible, supportive presence during school days.

Mr. Herring was most recently a police officer at the US Department of Veterans Affairs but has had a varied and distinguished law enforcement career, including as a Sergeant in the NC State Highway Patrol, Deputy Sheriff in the Wake County Sheriff’s Office, and Cary PD Officer. Prior to his police work, Mr. Herring served as a Specialist in the US Army and did a 13-month tour of duty in Kuwait as part of Operation Desert Storm. An avid sports fan, particularly baseball, you can be sure to catch him on CA’s sidelines this year.

Ms. Lucas has served as a Wake County Deputy Sheriff and School Resource Officer in Wake County Public Schools. Outside of police work, Ms. Lucas has served in operational management roles that have given her the problem-solving and public-facing skills needed to be successful at Cary Academy.

Students will see both Mr. Herring and Ms. Lucas throughout the school day, interacting in the hallways and across the campus. The security office remains in the lobby of the CMS building, and our security phone numbers are unchanged (and are posted in our handbooks and on various doors around campus). In the evenings and on weekends, other members of the Cary Academy Office of Campus Safety will be on duty and available to support students, parents, and visitors. All our safety officers will be easily recognizable by their blue shirts and warm smiles.

Please join me in welcoming Mr. Herring and Ms. Lucas, and Game On for 2023-2024!

Written by Dr. Mike Ehrhardt, Head of School

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